by Christine Li | Sep 27, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Techniques
Have you ever wondered why it can feel so difficult to make positive changes in your life? What I have learned from working with my psychotherapy and coaching clients over the past 20 years is this — None of us is lacking in desire to make positive changes. It...
by Christine Li | Sep 20, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Techniques
How many of you would like to improve your focus and attention span? Okay, don’t go crazy. Pipe down. I know there aren’t many of us who would turn down that opportunity. Yet there are so many of us who have difficulty knowing how to start or work when we: have too...
by Christine Li | Jul 7, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Techniques
We live in the era of distractions. There is no doubt about this. The number of distractions we face each day seems endless. When we get mired in the larger web of distractions, including the internet, busywork, errands, e-mail, and shopping, we can lose sight of the...
by Christine Li | Jun 16, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Techniques
In our efforts to be productive, sometimes we cut corners, thinking if we can just push through to the end of the project we’re working on, everything will be okay. Oftentimes, we cut out important communication steps from our work routine, just to save a few minutes...
by Christine Li | Jun 6, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques
One of the key strategies I teach to help people improve their productivity and to fight their anxiety is this: SEPARATE YOUR FEELINGS FROM YOUR WORK AS BEST AS YOU CAN. This is not to say that we should not care about our work. It's that we should not care so much...
by Christine Li | May 23, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Techniques
What unresolved problems do you have in your life right now? How much distress are you under because of them? Let's find a way out and forward. Procrastinators tend to sit on piles of problems. Unfinished projects, undelivered mail, ideas unfulfilled. One way to...