by Christine Li | Apr 14, 2017 | All Posts, Feelings, Resistance
Fear has a way of taking our spirits down. When we fear our own actions, we cannot generate enough energy to think, to guess, or to push our thoughts forward. When we fear others’ judgments, we cannot turn papers in, we cannot decide what might be best to say, we...
by Christine Li | Feb 15, 2017 | Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques, Thoughts
Procrastinators are oftentimes victims of their own negative mindset. Rather than coaching themselves towards success, Procrastinators lean towards doom and gloom, predicting humiliation and failure for themselves. It is no wonder then, that Procrastination tends...
by Christine Li | Feb 7, 2017 | Academic, Actions, All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques
Both procrastinators and non-procrastinators yearn to be more productive. There are lots of strategies, tools, and techniques to assist us in our work and daily lives these days, but even with that assistance, many people find consistent productivity hard to achieve....
by Christine Li | Jan 17, 2017 | All Posts, Feelings, Resistance, Techniques
I have learned over years of coaching and counseling many clients, that it is of utmost importance to understand the nature of a person’s mindset before trying to help them with anything else. Without knowing what kind of mindset the client has and understanding how...
by Christine Li | Sep 27, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Techniques
Have you ever wondered why it can feel so difficult to make positive changes in your life? What I have learned from working with my psychotherapy and coaching clients over the past 20 years is this — None of us is lacking in desire to make positive changes. It...
by Christine Li | Jul 7, 2016 | Actions, All Posts, Resistance, Techniques
We live in the era of distractions. There is no doubt about this. The number of distractions we face each day seems endless. When we get mired in the larger web of distractions, including the internet, busywork, errands, e-mail, and shopping, we can lose sight of the...